"I loved your book. I found it easy to understand and very effective in direct and honest writing."
Suzanna, Australia (To read further feedback on this book from Suzanna visit Amazon.com)


"I am learning a new way, a better way, to communicate with family, friends, co-workers... This new way of communicating has given me an inner sense of freedom and peace I've never had before. It takes work, but every step I take makes the next one easier and every step leads me to healthier relationships and a healthier me.  I have found it so empowering, I've bought a book for all my friends!! The wisdom in this book is simple, down to earth and realistic; it makes sense, feels right and most importantly WORKS!  Thank you Barb for giving me tools that I can use to make a difference in my life. What freedom!"    G.S., Victoria, BC


"Reading Barb's book was a valuable "booster shot" for me on the art and skill of assertiveness, allowing me to peel back another layer of the "onion" concerning my family of origin's communication patterns. Also the very next day I tool the opportunity to set a boundary with an employer which reinforced the value of my time and work."  Diane Gilliland, Clinical Counsellor, Victoria, BC


"This book provides "the what", "the why" and more importantly the "how to" in the pursuit of effective assertiveness. The practical tools provided, make the insightful knowledge come alive and work for me in the real world. This book is presented in a very real and honest environment which I can relate to. The information is clear, orderly and concise, which enhances learning and understanding in a very practical sense. Having these new tools at my finger tips is helping me to become more effectively assertive".  
Jacquie Farris, RN, Volunteer Support Group Facilitator, Alzheimers' Resource Centre, Victoria, BC